How to Write a Good Review
Help the community with thoughtful, constructive reviews
Last updated: December 2025
Introduction
A well-written review can make a provider's career, help other clients find their perfect match, and contribute to a safer, more trustworthy community. This guide will help you write reviews that are helpful, respectful, and appropriate.
Why Reviews Matter
For Providers
- Build reputation and credibility
- Attract new clients
- Get constructive feedback
- Justify their rates
For Clients
- Make informed decisions
- Set appropriate expectations
- Find compatible providers
- Build references
For Community
- Increase overall trust
- Identify bad actors
- Maintain quality standards
- Promote accountability
What to Include
- Overall experience - General impression and satisfaction level
- Accuracy of photos - Did they match their pictures?
- Communication - How was the booking process?
- Punctuality - Were they on time?
- Atmosphere - Was the environment clean and comfortable?
- Personality - Were they friendly, engaging, professional?
- Would you repeat? - Would you see them again?
Good Review Example
I recently had the pleasure of meeting Sarah. She was easy to communicate with during the booking process and responded promptly. Her photos are accurate - she's just as stunning in person. The incall location was clean, private, and comfortable.
Sarah has a warm personality and made me feel immediately at ease. She's a great conversationalist and our time together flew by. She's professional while still being genuinely engaging.
I will definitely be seeing her again. Highly recommended for anyone looking for genuine connection and a memorable experience.
What to Avoid
Don't describe specific activities, positions, or intimate details
Don't mention apartment numbers, building names, or specific addresses
Don't reveal their real name, neighborhood, or identifying information
Focus on this provider only - don't compare
Keep it respectful and tasteful
Don't mention what you paid
Bad Review Example (Don't Do This)
Sarah lives in the Riverside apartments on Oak Street, unit 304. She does [explicit service] for [price] and [explicit service] for [price]. Way better than Jessica who I saw last week. Her real name is probably Jennifer based on the mail I saw...
This review violates multiple guidelines: location details, explicit activities, rates, comparisons, and privacy violations.
Writing Negative Reviews
Negative reviews serve an important purpose but should only be written for legitimate issues:
- Misrepresentation - Photos don't match, claims were false
- Safety concerns - Unsafe practices, unclean environment
- Unprofessional behavior - Clock watching, rude, dismissive
- Bait and switch - Different person than advertised
- No-show or extreme lateness - Didn't show up or was very late
- Be factual - Stick to what actually happened
- Be specific - Vague complaints aren't helpful
- Consider context - Was there a reason for the issue?
- Give them a chance - Contact them first if possible
- Keep emotions out - Write when you're calm
- Mention positives too - Balanced feedback is more credible
- Lack of chemistry - Chemistry is subjective
- Your unrealistic expectations - They can't read minds
- Didn't get extras - They set their boundaries
- Rate complaints - You knew the rate beforehand
- Personal revenge - Being denied isn't grounds for attack
Review Etiquette
- Wait until you're home - Don't write it in the parking lot
- Give it a day - Let your thoughts settle
- Not too long - Write within a week while details are fresh
- Don't announce it - You don't need to tell them you're reviewing
You don't need to ask permission to write a review, but some providers prefer:
- Not being reviewed (respect this if stated)
- To review the text before posting
- Certain details kept private
If in doubt, a quick message asking "Is it okay if I write a review?" is courteous.
Many platforms allow providers to respond to reviews:
- Don't get into arguments in public
- If you made an error, correct it graciously
- Take legitimate feedback seriously
- Move detailed disputes to private messages
Pre-Submission Checklist
Frequently Asked Questions
Reviews are appreciated but not required. Consider writing one if you had a particularly good (or concerning) experience that others should know about. Some clients write reviews after every meeting; others only occasionally.
Depending on the platform, you may be able to edit or update your review. If circumstances change (provider reaches out to resolve an issue, for example), updating your review is appropriate.
Focus on what you do remember - overall impression, personality, atmosphere. You don't need to write a detailed account. A shorter, accurate review is better than a longer fabricated one.
Respect their wishes. Some providers prefer to operate more discretely. However, if you have safety concerns that the community should know about, that takes precedence.
Yes. If you suspect a review is fake (either positive or negative), report it to site moderators. Fake reviews harm the community and will be investigated.