Guide for Ladies
Everything you need to succeed as a provider on TheOtherBoard
Last updated: December 2025
Quick Start Checklist
New provider? Here's how to get your profile live and start receiving inquiries:
Apply as a Provider
Complete the provider application with accurate information
Verify Your Account
Complete the verification process to build trust
Create Your Profile
Write a compelling bio and add high-quality photos
Set Your Availability
Let clients know when you're available to meet
Boost Your Visibility
Use the "Available Now" feature to appear in prime positions
Getting Started
Provider Application
To advertise on TheOtherBoard, you must first complete a provider application. This helps us maintain the quality and safety of our community.
The application process includes:
- Basic account information
- Age verification (must be 21+)
- Agreement to our terms and guidelines
- Initial profile information
Approval Time
Most applications are reviewed within 24-48 hours. You'll receive an email once your application is approved.
Verification Process
Verification helps build trust with potential clients. Verified providers often receive more inquiries and can command higher rates.
Verification may include:
- Email verification
- Photo verification
- Identity confirmation
Creating Your Profile
Writing an Effective Bio
Your bio is your chance to make a great first impression. Here's how to write one that converts:
Do
- Be authentic and let your personality shine
- Highlight what makes you unique
- Mention your interests and hobbies
- Describe the experience you offer
- Use proper grammar and spelling
- Keep it concise but informative
Don't
- Copy bios from other providers
- Use all caps or excessive punctuation!!!
- Include explicit service descriptions
- Make claims you can't back up
- Leave it blank or too short
- Include contact info in the bio
Setting Rates & Services
Be clear and upfront about your rates. You can choose to display rates on your profile or discuss them privately - both approaches have merit.
Pricing Strategy
Research comparable providers in your area to understand market rates. Your pricing should reflect your experience, services, and the quality you offer.
Location & Contact Settings
Configure your location and contact preferences:
- Location: Set your primary city and any touring locations
- Incall/Outcall: Specify which you offer
- Contact Methods: Add preferred contact methods
- Screening Requirements: Specify your screening process
Photo Gallery Management
Photo Guidelines
High-quality photos are essential for attracting clients. Follow these guidelines:
- Quality: Use well-lit, clear photos (no blurry or dark images)
- Accuracy: Photos must accurately represent you (recent photos only)
- Variety: Include different poses, outfits, and settings
- Face Photos: Optional - many providers show face, many don't
- Compliance: Must follow our content guidelines (no explicit images in main gallery)
Uploading Photos
To upload photos:
- Go to your Provider Dashboard
- Click "Photo Gallery" or "Manage Photos"
- Click "Upload" and select your images
- Set your primary profile photo
- Arrange photos in your preferred order
Profile Photo vs Gallery
Your profile photo is the main image shown on cards and search results. Choose your best, most representative photo.
Your gallery photos are additional images viewers see on your full profile. Use these to show more of your personality and look.
Photo Privacy
Consider watermarking your photos to prevent unauthorized use elsewhere. Never include identifying information like visible addresses or license plates in background.
Visibility & Boost System
How Placement Works
The directory is one grid. Boosted providers sit at the top of that grid for the duration of their boost; everyone else follows in fairly-rotated order. Boost is the only signal that affects placement.
Top of the grid
While your boost is active, your card sits at the top tier of the directory grid. There's no separate "boosted" badge — placement is the entire benefit. Boost windows are 2h on Base, 3h on Plus/Pro (extendable to 4h).
Fairly rotated
When you're not boosted, your card appears in the main pool, ordered by a fair 5-minute rotation seed so everyone gets a turn near the top. Still fully searchable and filterable.
The "Available Now" Badge
Separate from boost. The green "Available Now" badge is a public signal that you're actively accepting requests — you control it. Flip it on as an opt-in checkbox when you start a boost, or use the dashboard quick-availability toggle to set it independently with an auto-expiry. Don't leave it on when you're not around — clients filter for it specifically.
Using Boosts Effectively
Maximize the value of your boosts:
- Timing: Boost during peak browsing hours (evenings, weekends)
- Availability: Only flip on the Available Now badge when you can actually respond
- Consistency: Regular boosting keeps you visible to regular browsers
- Profile Ready: Make sure your profile is complete before boosting
Managing Inquiries
Reading & Responding to Messages
Quick, professional responses convert inquiries into appointments:
- Check messages regularly, especially when boosted
- Respond to serious inquiries promptly
- Be professional and warm in your communication
- Provide clear information about next steps
Screening Clients
Screening is essential for your safety. Common screening methods include:
- References: Contact from other verified providers
- Employment Verification: Confirming workplace via official channels
- ID Verification: Photo ID matching the person
- Deposits: Requiring partial payment upfront
Never Skip Screening
No amount of money is worth compromising your safety. Legitimate clients understand and respect screening procedures. Anyone who refuses to screen is not worth your time.
Blocking & Reporting
You can block users who are disrespectful, harassing, or make you uncomfortable. Blocked users cannot message you or view your profile.
Report serious violations (threats, harassment, illegal requests) using the report function. We take all reports seriously.
Reviews & Reputation
Why Reviews Matter
Reviews are social proof that helps potential clients trust you. Providers with positive reviews often receive more inquiries and can command premium rates.
Getting Reviews
How to encourage reviews:
- Provide an excellent experience worthy of a good review
- Politely remind satisfied clients that reviews help you
- Make it easy by directing them to your profile
- Never offer compensation for reviews (against our policies)
Responding to Reviews
You can respond to reviews publicly. Best practices:
- Positive Reviews: Thank the reviewer graciously
- Constructive Feedback: Acknowledge and show you're listening
- Negative Reviews: Stay professional, don't get defensive
Handling Negative Reviews
A professional response to a negative review often makes a better impression than the review itself. Show potential clients how you handle challenges gracefully.
Safety & Security
Safety Overview
Your safety is paramount. We strongly encourage all providers to have safety protocols in place.
Screening Best Practices
- Never meet someone who refuses all screening
- Verify information before appointments
- Trust your instincts - if something feels off, decline
- Have a trusted friend know your schedule
Meeting Safely
- Share your location with a trusted contact
- Have check-in protocols (text at certain times)
- Know your exit strategies
- Keep emergency contacts accessible
For comprehensive safety information, visit our Safety Tips page.
Account & Billing
Subscription Plans
TheOtherBoard offers three subscription tiers:
- Base ($85/month) — 1 boost per day (2 hours each), 1 city, basic analytics
- Plus ($99/month) — 3 boosts per day (3 hours each), 1 city, enhanced analytics with daily trends
- Pro ($119/month) — 3 boosts per day (3 hours each), up to 5 cities for touring, premium analytics, Pro badge
Visit your Billing page to view plans and subscribe.
Payment Methods
We accept Bitcoin payments for your privacy and security. No credit card statements or bank records will link to our platform.
Don't have Bitcoin? No problem! Apps like Cash App, Venmo, or PayPal make it easy to buy and send Bitcoin in minutes. See our Payment Guide for step-by-step instructions.
Managing Your Subscription
From your Billing page, you can:
- View your current plan and features
- Upgrade to Plus or Pro for more boosts and features
- See how many boosts you have remaining
- Add optional extras like Featured placement
Tips for Success
Invest in Quality Photos
Professional or high-quality photos make a huge difference. Consider investing in a professional photoshoot.
Respond Quickly
Quick responses show professionalism and often make the difference between getting booked or not.
Keep Profile Updated
Regular updates signal you're active. Update photos periodically and refresh your bio seasonally.
Build Your Reputation
Consistently excellent service leads to reviews, referrals, and repeat clients - the foundation of success.
Frequently Asked Questions
Most applications are reviewed within 24-48 hours. You'll receive an email when your account is approved. Incomplete applications may take longer.
Yes! You can set your profile to "Hidden" in your settings. Your profile won't appear in search results or to other users until you make it visible again.
Go to Profile Settings and update your location. You can also add touring dates and locations. Remember to update it when you return home!
Report it immediately using our Contact Form or file a DMCA takedown request. We take photo theft seriously.
Our messaging system is for making introductions and arrangements. All actual service agreements happen off-platform between consenting adults.
Need More Help?
If you can't find the answer to your question, we're here to help. Visit our Contact Us page or check our FAQ for more information.